And how do I live in limbo while she takes her sweet time leaving? That's what's been making me insane. Everyone says to "lead." But with all the posters on this site, there's a huge amount of mixed messages and advice.
How interesting that you have no issue how to pursue and stalk, but yet can't see that the same personality traits you use to stalk and pursue can be used to "keep you from limbo".
You STALK her out of the house.. Keep pursuing THAT issue...
A new "what can I do to get her out of the house" of the day program... One day nagging her to leave.. The next day showing her a great place you have found for her with low rent and great location.. the next day subtle hints.. Your foucs changes from how can I pursue today to "how do I get her out of the house the sooner" routine... You seem to be good at focusing on keeping her.. Change that focus on getting her out.. You will be amazed at the things you can come up with to get them to leave.Take a couple of pages out of the WS playbook.. It wokrs for THEM...
Stop playing the victim in all of this PH.. You know what to do. You just refuse to do it.
You get to choose how you handle things. Your wife is watching you. Your kids are watching you.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
