Making progress and reconnecting.....ayieee

[CPCajun]

Tuesday It started again. We are in the process of consolidating our office instead of shutting down and having to move. I brought home some decent computer speakers and an electric pencil sharpener.

I tried to bring home some nice computer speakers and an electric pencil sharpener. On both W argued on why I had to bring it home, we do not need them. "I did reply "You were right, we do not need them, but I thought it would be nice to have." The only thing W didn’t leave it as that and kept on why I brought "that crap" home. That is when I did get angry and told her, Why can’t I just do something nice? Why do you have to bust my chops every time I do a small and simple gesture?" I took the replacement speakers and put them back in the bag to use elsewhere. Then W said now why aren’t you using them? Geesh…. I was just told that we didn’t need them.

Later S came out to eat and I confronted him about not doing his chores, and again the past 10yeas comes up, but from him. I tried to tell him I understand, but W interjected stating boy he got you there. Then I was fighting with both of them. I said the past 10 years has nothing to do with getting chores done. You can’t throw that in my face when you are getting lecture about neglecting chores.

I then talked to W about that comment and told her that its was bad to say that. Then it was her turn…she went on as scriped and then said she was thru and does not want to continue MC and I should go by myself. I told her that we only had one session and though it really worked. She said it didn’t. She felt pressured and didn’t really feel comfortable there.

I pretty much was hurt afterwards and went outside to cool off.