Thanks everyone,

I'd already decided to let the truck thing pass. It's just one more thing my L can show that my H promised to do and stopped doing. He refuses to sign the papers to put the house on the market, says he just wants to "have the judge auction it off". I'm hoping that this will direct the judge to have it quit claimed to me instead for what is owed. I plan to call the mtg. co. and start dealing with them today.

Yes, he can change the truck ins., as his name is on it, too. Likewise, my name is on his truck and the camper trailer. I'm just sad. Without a date, the D was just a vague possiblity. Now, it's more a dead certainty. I know that a lot can change in 85 days, just look at how he changed towards me.

I'm still standing, albeit quietly. Have no intention of getting in touch with him again. I will get in touch with my lawyer at least in mid Sept. to see if he thinks it best to let it ride or cross file on the adultery charges. Taxes are due in October, and that's $1000.00. I'll have to have my lawyer contact him about paying his half.

I feel crushed for time, yet feel so empty and useless at the same time. Glad I didn't have to work today.