I'm not expecting the MC to wave a magic wand either. If he says we should separate, it's a done deal.
ph - this sounds like you are letting a third party control a very important life decision. You need to keep in mind what YOU want. Are YOU happy? Are YOU being the kind of person you want to be in relationship? That is the only way you can find out if THIS marriage is the right marriage for you.
He: WAH Me: LBW Precious: DD
~ I'm grateful for every day I have to improve the way I relate.