You are going to have to have the gnads to lay the whole relationship on the borderline of being over... A man with the strength to do that is very attractive to a woman... In other words.. STOP CHASING AND move the opposite direction of her... which means to take the same line of reasoning on her that she is with you.." yes, I realize now that it isn't working. I now realize that you are never going to love me back and I now agree that I should stop trying. I don't even know HOW I feel about us or you anymore. I think it would be best if you moved out. I need time to think." (this is YOU speaking those things to HER)