Once SHE is convinced that you REALLY will give her what she wants.. (OUT) is when you can make some progress...
Go back and read again entire thread from Officer in Need..
He was doing the same silly things you keep trying and doing.. He kept getting the same results you are.. NONE...
You know what people say about people who keep on trying and trying the same things and getting the same results and yet hope for a different one?
When OIN FINALLY listened to ME... YES me... If finally turned back around in his favor. They are NOW reconciling. Thinking about having a baby. On the road to mending a relationship that IF he would have continued on the way he was going was going to destroy any last hope he had of saving it.... (think about that.. because that is YOU right now too)
It was ONLY when he finally told her this.. "WS, I finally get it... You don't love me the way a woman should love her man. I keep trying to win your love and you don't really love me back and are NOT in love with me. I finally get it.. I don't know what has taken me so long.. Guess I need to be hit over the head with a 2x4 sometimes. Well WS, I DO get it now. I am going to stop trying to win you back. I am going to stop trying to show you how much I love you. Matter of fact I don't know how I feel about you anymore either. I agree that this isn't going to work between us because I want to be with a woman who I love and with one who loves me back. It obviously isn't you."
And THEN you follow through on that promise... She has NOW finally felt heard. This is when you MAY get your chance. stop trying the "method of the day" and stick to what works.
