Yes, you can find yourself anywhere but sometimes you need a change of pace, of scenery, of surrounding to trigger that so she followed her interests. Her husband had extremely valid points, of course, but unhappy is unhappy. Personally, I wish she had gone and done those things without divorcing her H. Who knows what that might have led to. But, this was her true journey and it is inspirational in some ways and not so much in others.
You're right, it does get you thinking about your own goals and aspirations doesn't it?
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!