Here's a story...of a very sad lady

[Dagny-2]

I like your words better than mine,
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I would have said, "End your affair, and come back and work on our marriage with me, and don't rip this family apart."

But that's just me. [/quote]

He asked me so many times, what he can do for me and I did at one point say to stop doing what you are doing, and he said that isn't going to happen. But you are right, I need to be done with the falling apart. I had two nights of it, enough is enough.

Step one is get through this weekend. I have a friend on a business trip and only 5 hours away, I can go there alone, with the kids, or she could come here. What is best for the kids? Being completely removed from thesituation and coming back to find their dad gone (we would have had the talk, but they would just not witness it) or I could go away alone and let H deal with the kids and moving, or the friend can come here. I do know I can't do this alone, but I don't know which option is best.

Help!!!!