21 years of marriage hanging by a thread

[Chuck66]

I lowered the limit from $5k to $500 and you can only make limit changes every six months. The card has a $350 balance due.

She never gave a response. She has gone dark with me equally as well. Which is tough to do in the same bed/home and still parenting.

Every time I talk with my L he takes more $ out of my $5k retainer. I'll see if I can re-address the issue with W. Should be another fun conversation.

On a side, yesterday W wanted to know who I was taking to the baseball game with her ticket (I'm taking the kids too). I said I haven't figured that out yet. I have actually asked my cousin is she'd go but W doesn't need to know that.