I obviously don't bring the matter up..because I don't want a D!
Do you think she would immediately file for D b/c you want to spend more time with the kids?
You are fearful of living the your life to your standards b/c of what W may do.
Until you break the way of thinking you will be walking on eggshells with anything your W wants.
Don't be nasty about it or argue. Do it in a loving way and you will be rewarded.
If she is threatening you with D everytime she wants something then you're just a donkey chasing after a carrot on a stick.
Conquer this fear and you we feel better for you.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
