21 years of marriage hanging by a thread

[Chuck66]

I thought about that since she has been so emotionless around me. That's why I added, "But what do I know."

She is also using our joint credit card. I have my own now but could not cancel that card since it's in two people's name.

The bank will close the joint card out if either party reports it as stolen. I told W that and said for her to get a new credit card in her own name. She hasn't. I have not used that credit card and the bill for it comes overdue on Mon. My name is still on the card and I am liable for all her charges.

Should I report it stolen to get my name off or is that me just being an a$$?