Originally Posted By: MM78
He has said he is trying to get her to go away, and obviously he is being too nice about it.


He is not "trying." He is not "doing" it until it's done. He's pussyfooting around is what it is (no pun intended). Breaking it off is just that, breaking it off completely.

Originally Posted By: MM78
If he has until Monday maybe he can feel that he wrapped things up with her in a way that he is satisfied with and that comes from him so it won't be a 'you took her away' thing.


You won't be "taking her away." He is the one who brought her into your M. Not you.

Originally Posted By: MM78
I wanted to add that he still doesn't think she is the cause or solution to our R problems.


Well, she is certainly not going to make things any better in your M as long as she's in the picture.

Time to put your foot down.