Last time when I was here I worked so hard to keep him living in the house, but it wasn't until he left that he was forced to face his own unhappiness, it wasn't me causing it, it wasn't the kids causing it, it wasn't home, it was just him. I know everyone is different, but for him, that helped.

And I sure do understand about turning to mush, especially where the kids are involved. These guys are obviously intelligent men, yet they seem to fail to use it.


Me 48, H49, M24, S14, S11
DB #1 4/2002-8/2003
Bomb #2 August 2010 & he moved out
Living with OW