Another rough night, I am just so surprised at myself for falling apart so completely. We talked just a bit, he said what can I do for you? I looked at him and simply said, be honest. He then said, "I am! Last night was very hard for me" (telling me about the OW). Should I give him a pat on the back for telling me about all the lies he has been saying? I just stared at him and said nothing.

Anyway, we tell the kids tonight and on Saturday he moves into his apartment.

What do I do now? He's in love, he plans to marry her someday. How do I get through the next two days?


Me 48, H49, M24, S14, S11
DB #1 4/2002-8/2003
Bomb #2 August 2010 & he moved out
Living with OW