It's always good to hear from you Rabbit! Love to hear your perspective, especially as you know how long I've been at this!

GAG, hi-jack away, I don't mind in the least. I think it's all fodder for learning and improving. I really took heed of your message about consistency. I have learnt so much from all of this and if nothing else I have learnt to be more consistent and to be less critical. My challenge then is more of the same!

Today I did H a favour and text him to tell him something that would assist him but had no benefit to me. It actually meant that we would have to cancel our tentative plans for a DVD tomorrow night. It turned out to be a win-win cos he was very happy with the outcome and I honestly felt happy to help him even though our plans had to be changed. I believe in karma so it will come back to me somewhere down the track.