G, you accidently posted a name there. Ask the moderators to delete your post, no? Click on "notify" at the bottom of the post and write them a quick note.

Your H seems a bit distracted at the moment. All the more reason to get on with your stuff. Distract yourself with work, bub and friends.

I have been thinking more about the MC thing, after reading John28's thread (worth a read) and advice given there (p 28) on bringing up MC. The general idea is that don't control or baby WH by bringing it up. He has to want it or it will fail anyway. I guess that also comes back to Allen's idea that the man-child has to walk his own path.

Helpful or not, I am not sure!

(good luck with the daycare. what's working and not working? how many days is she in now?)


Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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