Go dark on him, work on you, but send pictures to MIL. If she's Italian, Catholic, or Jewish, she'll work the guilt angle for you, demanding to know how he can stay away when his daughter needs him so much to be there.
Guilt + dose of reality = end of affair.
She's Italian all right! But WH does NOT like his mother. She's over-emotional. I think he now thinks I am like her, so I need to buddy up with someone else. I could go via his beloved aunty instead. But she's not exactly one to lecture him - she is currently another man's mistress! There is BIL, who's here anyway, so I think he's my link.
There is BIL, who's here anyway, so I think he's my link.