WAH and LBW separated and dark

[DumpedforMIL]

back at home. i can actually respond in a proper manner now.

heck make a list of what was important then. I would like to see it. Now.. describe their importance now.

making sure we eat properly - cook healthy meals.
have a balance of date nights and home life.
money management.
intimacy.
making sure chores were done.

life was pretty simple. there wasn't very much to deal with.
i still think those things are important. but there are no date nights and no intimacy for me now.

even living alone. life isn't that complicated. yeah, you balance everything yourself but i did that before anyway.
i make sure i eat properly, my bills are paid on time, and the chores are done. anything else is fun time. and that means GAL.

My thoughts are the situation is not as bad as you think it is. You just have to see the openings.

from where i sit or stand, there are no openings.
i'm afraid to ask why you think the situation isn't as bad.

i'm just having a bad week.

Don't play this game to win. Play this game so it shows your heart. Be you. Noting more.. nothing less.

you may have to guide me a bit on this.
you know that i've been programmed to 'win' throughout my entire marriage and possibly my entire life.
i don't know any other way. it's all i know.

i'm afraid of being vulnerable and getting hurt again.

Now...

Do Work.

again, will need a bit more info on this because now we are working on the sitch and not me.

my posts over the next two days will be a bit different as i'll be posting via mobile phone.