Kara, great post above. Thankyou, I needed those words. And Mystik, I've been lurking for some time. I know where you are at. I am also scared (sometimes terrified) of life without WH and am struggling to imagine a new one. I try not to look too far into the future. Give yourself a break, and set small goals - even if it means 30mins in the next hour not thinking about your H. Courage...
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369