G, BD, FM, PH and NM, I keep reading over your posts for comfort and hope.

G, fight resolved. It was fatigue. Thanks for checking in.

Okay, so update (I guess it'll be me just journaling for a while, hey?!):

I HAVE NOT, repeat NOT, INITITATED CONTACT! grin

But I have certainly thought about it, ha! smirk

Actually, right now I ESPECIALLY want to write to OW...

I want to tell her what a disgrace she is; taking the father of this newborn baby away..away by thousands and thousands of kilometeres...how can she live with herself?

Like that would help!!!!!!!! frown

I might ask Allen what he thinks of that ( as a theory; I'm not going to do it). I'm interested in his take.

I know I am not meant to have two threads, one here and the new one in Infidelity but I don't know if my H's affair is now an "affair". I am becoming more and more the "former wife". I think as of today, since they are living together (I guess) they are now "partners".

Can you guys help me divorce H in my head. I need to fully let go.


Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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