I understand how you feel.We sometimes can't see reality because we are so attached and emotional. It isn't easy handling the roller coaster of emotions.
The one thing I truly have taken at face value through these threads is that we cannot hold onto a WAH or WAW. If they want "out", then they will get out no matter how we feel or what we do or what we say. In order to even have a chance at starting a new M, we have to let the old M go.
I know it hurts to hear that.I live it every day, but I know it is true.
