Hello Sandi, I hope all is going well with you. I just wanted to say thank you for you advice and support you have given me. I know I have had some slip ups since working on saving my M, but thanks to you & some others I still have hope!!
This has been a huge roller coaster to say the least, but I not done even though it feels like it is some days. This week is extremely had as it's our Anniversary & I had so much planned for us, but I will get through.
One of the hardest & biggest things I did lately was tell my W that I'm doing the best I can to move on & that I forgive her for all the hurt & pain she has caused me, as well as forgive myself for the mistakes I have made..
Then told her I have to say this if you did end up with OM I don’t know where our friendship would be. (I don’t know if OM is in the picture or just still has those “in Love Feelings”).
Not sure if that was right or not, but I want to move forward from this. Thank you for suggesting No More Mr. Nice Guy as well it was a real eye opener.
As it seems my situation is getting dimmer I still have a fight in me!!It may take her a while to see things; I just hope I haven’t moved on without giving it one last fighting chance (cause you never know).