I can't correct years of bad habits in four months.
Yes you can. I've done it many times. You are doing it/have done it.
Originally Posted By: CD Bear
But then I think something weirder. Do I actually NEED the affair to go on longer in order for me to be ready? And the more time that goes by, the more different I'll be. No way I can answer the question of whether I'd accept her back from wherever this journey leads me. yeah, odd thought alright.
Not too weird CD. I've had those kinds of thoughts many times about my sitch. Maybe she needs to go date and have a few R's, maybe I need to go out and discover to make the changes I need to make, maybe....
Who the hell could possibly know? That's why I've really been focusing on embracing what is as if I've chosen it myself. So hard to do but I can see where I think it will take me...
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