First, let me add you are stronger than you realize!
There are baby steps to all of this. Every day you will get stronger.In your head, your heart, everything.
Listening to others outside this forum isn't good.I know that too well.
Listen to your gut.It's never wrong.
I think the sagest advice I ever read on these forums is to let the WAH or WAW go with love. Very hard to do, but healthy for us. We have no other choice.
I told my WAH on Wed, that I don't agree with a leg sep, but since he wants it, let's get it done.He was surprised! And today, he is very very depressed. maybe I gave him enough freedom to rethink things.But if not, I plan to move on. And it's the HARDEST thing I will ever have to do.
Hang in there and know you have really caring people on your side.
