Good evening everyone... I want a new marriage. I am guarded, I wonder if it is loneliness setting in with him, I am joyful, I am unsure all at the same time.

He continues to call, leave messages and email. He has asked me what I need him to do. I have to think about this because my first reaction is to say: "I need to know that your relationship with the OW is over and that when you return, you will look for a new job, I need you to demonstrate that you are committed, I need you to be honest about yourself, I need you to open up and not cut and run when/if things get difficult, I need spontaneity, love, and fun. Can you do these things?"

Last edited by DestinyUnknown; 08/19/10 11:51 PM.

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Me 44
H 51
T 15 yrs
M 9+ yrs
No Kids
"You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."