Actually your husband is incorrect. Your marriage ended the day he filed divorce papers. I don't know what state you are in but in MOST states the day the dissolution is filed is the day the marriage had ended in the eyes of the law. You are now in the dissolution stage which is merely a set of legalities.
Wow. I didn't know that. I'll have to check on Illinois. I still considered myself married.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6