I too neglected my wife by playing Warcraft for years.
Man, I'm not alone! If I could go back in time and never install that F'd up lifestealing POS game, I would! I shredded everything related to that game. It was one of my W's BIGGEST complaints. In hindsight it was really the beginning of the end of my marriage.
Damn it! It really makes me mad how much I was too late.
Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
Yes, "N.U.T.S." is an exceptional book, and will help you focus on which of your boundaries are actually your Non-negotiatble, unalterable" ones.
I want you to be very sensitive to your wife trying to use your area of SPECIFIC weakness (your prior infidelities) as weapons to justify any current behavior of hers in the same area. It's VERY typical.