Do I actually NEED the affair to go on longer in order for me to be ready? And the more time that goes by, the more different I'll be. No way I can answer the question of whether I'd accept her back from wherever this journey leads me. yeah, odd thought alright.
NOW
You get what we have been saying.
You are not ready for her to come back.
There is so much of the journey to see.
So much to learn about yourself and your M.
That is why we said you have TIME and it is s gift from your W
I am glad you understand that.
She is learning her own lessons on her own time and you have to let her do that...
I am with the folks here.
Let her have what she wants right now and she will learn what she really wants
Or
Not.
Now could you truly be with someone who hasn't done the work and taken their own journey?
You will only know the answer to that when she is back asking you to.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
