well I finally did it...I unfriended him on facebook. Yay! Another step in the right direction.

As far as him coming over and visiting the kids here, I would love to set some boundaries with that, but he keeps reminding me how we are still legally married and how that it is still his house so he can come when here whenever he chooses, which luckily isnt very often, But still I would prefer if he would take the Girls out instead of just hanging out here, someone asked my why I just don't leave when he is here during a visit, I just wouldn't feel comfortable with that right now either.


Me:43
H:43
T:20 YRS
M:15 YRS
Bomb: 6/9/08
Bomb#2 7/6/10
Served with papers at work 7/13/10
DD:14, DD:11