Sometimes you have "Eureka" moments where you just get it, thanks to someone. Coach, thank you for:
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I would talk about what's going on in your life - work, family, hobbies, health, spiritual, emotional. What you are learning, doing, thinking, planning and dreaming about. You don't need her to engage to do this. A WAW is dying inside to know these things (intomesee) and it's not pursuing or rewarding CB to talk about yourself. It makes you interesting and attractive because you are a man of action, plans and dreams. It's powerful, try it.
I've been struggling with detaching, GAL, etc. while depriving my wife of what she's been craving. Hopefully this will help a lot.