I think she is really broke and I could afford to give her something like $100. Should I do that or just let her eek it out?
Also, do I teach her how to use the lawn tractor or let her suffer through trying to figure it out herself.
Has she asked for help? Stop trying to fix things, let her come to you, let her go to figure things out without you. It will be OK.
Thanks Coach. That is why I ask these questions. I don't know why I can't stop trying to fix things. I guess it is because I think I am trying to help and helping people, anyone, gives me satisfaction. It is so hard to change this. I also can't seem to stop defending myself either. That one is also very difficult.
