.............. as Freckle has found out some times just hanging in there if you feel you can, can provide surprising results!
LR, this is EXACTLY what I needed to hear today. Thank you! I have been planning to read Freckles thread......today might be a good day to do that.
One year ago, 9 months post-bomb, Jody (DB coach) said to me, "6 months ago you changed the 2 things that H/XH said made him walk away. What do you think would convince him those changes are genuine?" I said "He probably needs to see consistency over time". It appears at this point that consistency may be having an effect on him.