WHat your saying makes alot of sense. Im thankful that he is still in counseling. Although he wont go back to his IC until Monday. I think she helps alot. I guess Im worried about him doing the deciding to stay or go bit. I have been thinking he had already made that decision about things. I mean, HE wanted to do the stop child support thing. We even had to go to court over it. We have both gotten new vehicles recently which we will have a hard time affording if he goes again. Im hoping he wont go anywhere and is just trying to work through things. He still will tell me he loves me when I say it first, which seems good. He would NEVER do that before!
I will reread those stages again. Im just trying to figure out how to go about things while he works through this. DO I just let things go and try not to worry about them?
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
