That's what I love about this bb. You get so many ideas, positive stories, some lessons, always you feel that we are with each other and want the best for each other.
Punkin, you know that when it is over, it is over, but only when you say it is and feel it is. In the meantime, we can only support you, give viewpoints, advice (taken or not), etc. Ultimately, this is your show. Not even your H can tell you how to feel or what to do. He may think it is over for him, but as so many have shown, he may be very mistaken. Once he realizes that only he is responsible for his happiness and his feelings of manhood, you will start seeing radical changes. In the meantime, he will stay with this OW because she makes him feel good (that's what my H said about his OW, anyway).
Take care.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
