Perhaps the D will be done by then and perhaps church_31's BF will be too. Is it bad to root for the R to fail?
I know you are half joking... but in my opinion, yes, it's bad. I was dating a woman, I knew she was dating other guys, but I also was pretty sure that we were headed somewhere. I think she was too. Then she told me she was going another direction (tears in her eyes, by the way). I had to tell her I hoped he was great. I admit to having hopes that maybe it doesn't work, but then I realize that if I really like her, I just can't do that.
