Not sure where to start, or end. WAW?

[john28]

Went home for lunch. I thought about what you guys said about how I was attempting to be "moralizing". I wanted to validate my W's feelings on the issue, so I told her that I had thought about it quite a bit this morning and I understood how she felt... that I was really trying to listen to her and that I can see how she felt when I told her about the trip to TX.

She said thankyou for thinking of that, I appreciate it. She then told me that the more she talks with the MC, the more frustrated she feels because she has allowed herself to be treated this way for the past 5 years in our M, and at this point right now this is the most frustrated she has been. I validated and told her I felt the same exact way, and she acknowledged it whole heartedly that I felt the same. She said that the more she thinks about it, the more it just seems like it can't be fixed. I validated and told her that it was going to be tough to "fix" this, and she said, "Yeah, I know it is, it just seems frustrating".