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I feel like I am reading the same old same old Eric. From the Eric that came to this board many months ago…


That was a wonderful pity party…

Want to hear mine?
I had a H who is a civil servant. I have always been a married single mom. Easy no, but I have never complained about it. No matter how hard it has been at times. Bla bla bla…and then some…

So Eric has to take care of himself. So Eric has to take care of his kids. So Eric has to do the housework.

So life handed you yet another raw deal…

So Eric is tired…

Everyone here goes through this Eric. Everyone here is tired at one point or another.

It is all what you make of it.

Right now, you are choosing to live in the pain, the despair, the pity party. You are and you can’t tell me you aren’t.

You are scared. Scared that you will be nothing without your W. That you will have nothing without your W.

Are you nothing without her?

Who completes you Eric? You or her?

I also think you are scared of something else but you need to define it, I am not gonna tell you what it is…

3 weeks huh?

Three weeks until the end of your world, or maybe a new beginning?

Eric, it is time to pull up your big girl panties and stop…

You are stuck because you are letting yourself be stuck. Because it is where you want to be right now.

Until you decide to change that, nothing will change.

I don’t know that I have any more words right now.

You can tell me where to go, it’s ok…

Your reply, post it here. My phone is off.

Oh and yes, I saw your first reply...

Answer the hard questions...

Please.