Well, lets see, let me answer the easy question first...
MaMaMo...I dont think she got in contact with him again. Matter of fact, my H just found out about the OW and her BF breaking up day before yesterday. I have known it since the weekend. So, I dont believe she is in contact with him. I think he wishes she would talk to him, to have them be friends like before and she doesnt want that at all and it hurts him.
Lance...Im trying to stay detached. I do believe he is acting like a teenager by locking himself in the bathroom. Other ways he has acted recently makes me think that too. He went and sat in his truck the other day because the kids were getting on his nerves. He could have just sent them to their rooms like I did when I saw him sitting in his truck.
I agree he werent done with his MLC when he came back, but it all seemed so different this time, like he was ready this time. I do see him dealing differently with his feelings...which seems to be good. Before he just werent dealing with them.
Missherlove, I believe he was and still is in MLC. Your right, my H does not handle "talk's" like this well...fight or flight...thats about right.
I do want him to communicate, but last night I feel like he was saying that I want to control him. That was not it at all! I just thought that I should know his friends...
I forgot to mention when he said I was the one that seemed to be hiding stuff, that I offered up my cellphone then and there for him to look at! He said he werent interested.
WIthdrawal seems like what is going on...I think...not sure why such a long stretch went by this time before he was down again.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
