Thing is, she was enthusiastic about sex before we got married and I thought I had found the perfect match. She was inexperienced, having only been inside a guys pants once before me and still a virgin, but she seemed eager to learn and try new things. About 6 months before we got married, she suddenly lost interest in sex. At the time, she told me that she was feeling guilty about having sex outside of marriage and she convinced me it would be good for us to save it up for marriage. My gut told me to run, but I wrote it off as getting cold feet and soldiered on. We had sex one time during our 8 day honeymoon. I knew then that there was a problem but never figured out how to address it, and the few people I talked to about it blew it off as that's just the way females are, that was normal etc etc (turns out the two women I talked to about it were also LD, and the two men I talked to were having similar problems in their young marriages...neither is still married to their wives of that time). Right before our first was conceived, I almost left but then we got into a bad car accident at which time she said she wanted to ML more often. That lasted for a month or two until our first son was conceived (and before we had recovered from our injuries). It got a lot harder to leave just because the interest in sex wasn't there.
