Relocated the family and he dropped the bomb

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I wanted to add that he still doesn't think she is the cause or solution to our R problems. He said we had them before her, we hardly did anything together before her, so removing her won't change anything. No we didn't do anything together before her because he was working 100 hrs a week. And 4 months into that his brother died. And then he sat alone in the basement to drink and smoke and mourn. And then we had a baby..... so no we never got to a happy place in our marriage where we felt connected. We haven't felt connected since we were dating.