Relocated the family and he dropped the bomb

[steady]

Read Coach's post over and over until you get it in your bones.

The boundary around a A needs to be firm and non-negotiable.

"I have decided I won't share my husband with another woman. If you don't immediately cease all contact then I will pack up your things and initiate a divorce."

If he agrees then you have your transparency plan ready - a no-contact letter sent to her which you witness and have access to all forms of communication and financial records.

Don't you deserve it?