My W will be starting back to work and the situation at her work is not a good one. I was thinking of trying to do something nice for her for her work environment. Not looking for anything in return just a friendly move, whould this also send up red flags to her?
Is that something you normally do? Or is this something you would be doing to show how much you love her?
Anything that you do is considered pursuing. You really need to follow that list from Sandi and take a timeout til she comes to you.
I strongly suggest you read DR and the other books I mentioned. This is very tough to handle so keep coming here to ask what you should do. Just like these questions. : )
Please understand that anything YOU think is the right thing to do right now, more than likely IS NOT.
Sandi2 was a WAW, she composed that list from DR and her own persoanl feelings. Please keep coming here for advice and listen to the vets.
