I like Poepad's idea about listing the 10 things you want h to change and have him list his 10. I wish my s would do that! It's not like I haven't asked.
2 years ago I got: 1. Have a hot dinner waiting for me when I get home and 2. come to bed with no clothes on.
I do 1 & 2 and still ask if there are more ways I can improve as a wife...get nothing more. Then when he moves out he comes out with he feels like #4 in my life. WEll then tell me some ways to help you NOT FEEL THIS WAY! Good gravy the man makes no sense!!!! He's like well gee let me ask for some stuff that has nothing to do with how I really feel!!!!!
I swear I think he's just helping me make CRAZY!!!!