as we have all said before texting is not personal enough. She could have texted me, but she called instead. she called me twice while I was at the gym yesterday and I replied 40 mins later by text. I also did not stick around for the dinner she invited me to. She stayed in her house for the first time, and I believe she wanted to hear my voice. As pin said above, what she came by for at the house this morning was not important, she was checking up on me. My C said she will have work and the kids keeping her busy, and will miss the interaction with me. He said adults need adult interaction, and she will not have that with me going forward unless its church, or with the kids. I told her the other day I have accepted her decision, no mention of trying to work on things, just stated I have decided to let go.
I have been some what of a "melty man" off and on for the last month and with the separation it will be a lot easier to move away from those actions. When she comes by to get more stuff from the house, she will notcie more of my stuff gone, the reality will set in, she will overcome it or not, again thats her problem, not mine. I am overcoming the reality of the situation. And I think that is why we are here, to get ahead of our WAS in regards to reality. You work and deal with your emotions, but while they live in fantasy we live in reality.
