I'm now healing and moving forward

[Truegritter]

She is still in lala land.

This is what you are forgetting.

MLC right?

Or Not?

Does it matter? You have an expectation of your W and your M and your life that just isn't reality.

Sorry man. You know I am suffering this right along with you.

I have had to deal with the anger that can come with no notice. The anger of really watching someone not have one care in the world. The anger of watching someone act as if the cards are in her hand.

There are alot of "I"'s up there ^^^^^^^^^^

And this is where I see you stuck my friend. The anger that has come from the perception that she is doing all this to you and your family.

Are there consequences? Yes.

The cards are in her hands because you are giving them to her.

Some of this can be done with boundaries and some of it you have to accept and stop hoping and wishing it were different.

Look at what you have control over.

This may sting a bit my friend and I am sorry...

I hear a lot of victim up there.

That is the road to Bittertown and you already know that.

You sound like a man who has been fighting this very hard

Is it time to give it up and let it go over...

I mean let go completely. No more fighting what could woulda shoulda....

Protect yourself. Your family.

And let the rest go....

It isn't serving your journey anymore.

Let it go...all of it.