Yeah, it's tough. If you are coming at her, she isn't interested, so how to be a confident, charming, affectionate man who is also a challenge?
Don't kiss her but when she's naughty, but don't be a jerk either. Don't give up your ME time either. Stay true to yourself and expect to be tested. Let her seduce you sometimes--kitty needs a challenge, so it's OK to be charming and even flirty, but don't fall all over yourself trying to get her into bed.
Why does it have to be so hard, eh?
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