Good morning Cindy - Hope you are doing well today - I have been following your thread lately and sense that you are gooing great. However, you need to remember that while you feel that you are walking on egg shells, he is also walking on the same egg shells. (and walking through the same mine field) I have noticed that you say you are confused with him saying one thing then doing another, but I have notice you may be doing the same thing.
I believe that this may be expected though. Both of you are very sensitive to the slighest of perseved signals from the other and ASSumeing - Please give him the benefit of the doubt and communicate with him that you are committed on makeing the R work and to give you the benefit of the doubt also.
Now is the time to follow the DBing principal of keep doing what works and if it dosn't work, then don't do it. Keep on doing great. And I hope you have a really great day and new year.
