H left in Aug 09, moved in with OW in Oct 09. My sister died of lung cancer in Nov 09 and I flew out of state to attend funeral with my son. When I returned home, he had broke in the house and removed all of "his" belongings from the garage and shed, mainly tools and other equipment needed to maintain a home. To say the least I was shocked that he took the opportunity at such a devastating time in my life.