Dudess had some good insight also. Coffee and "dirty talk" is not a fantastic idea. Keep thinking about a place and time for a sit down with him. The phone cal to set this up will be interesting.
i thought about this. he doesn't take my phone calls. i could try email but if he doesn't respond to that either, then what?
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Remember.. your L is advising that you do this. Coffee.. and the statement comes after "dirty talk".
i assume the "dirty talk" the separation agreement stuff. i don't even know if i have it in me to use the statement. if i get a negative vibe, i may not even use the statement. if he looks at me with the same hatred that i felt 6 months ago, then there is no point.
i'm feeling down today. i looked up some friends on facebook and all i see are happy couples with kids/families. and i look at myself and i have nothing. i don't have kids, i don't even have an h. when i confided in my mother, she told me that i picked the wrong guy to marry. in other words, i made a mistake and i'm paying the consequences for my mistake. maybe she's right.
