I am sorry to hear that XH and XFIL continue to be donkeys. From my own personal experience with donkeys...Dont feed them any carrots and they will leave you alone. Only contacted that one time, the rest is "radio silence"
Some time apart with FFG may be a blessing in disguise. It will give both of you time to think about how happy you really are with each other. Yes, we are exploring that, of course coming from where I was .. it caused an intial panic feeling on my part but then I know you have to let go and let the chips fall where they may....
BTW... FFG must work out as his biceps look massive in the rafting pictures. I sure he would have no problem corraling donkeys. Yes, he does work out but not as much as he used to.. ( that's one thing he is missing, can you imagine how they look if he did?) So, he needs to get back to the gym, right now he can get spotty work outs at work but he's at work so not able to concentrate on it like he would like to. It's his thing... staying healthy and fit. He is very broad shoulder and yes the arms are massive. He has good genetics for muscular building (Indian)
However, he is not cocky about his size and not one to say "I'll kick his a&&". He would protect if necessary but walk away from all else. I think he had his time in his Navy days and didn't enjoy it much then. We were at Pike Place the other day and this weirdo came over to the car and was hollering at him and all he could do was laugh and smile .... EXH would have been screaming back and ruined the day but as FFG said... "You can't help crazy" So, he is a lover not a fighter.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
